You don't suddenly become strong. You don't suddenly become capable.
Once strong, "strong self-image" and "strong personhood expectations" from others will occur, creating pressure to "run away from the challenge of [what you can't do.
Tug of war between "do it because you might be able to" and "avoid it because you might not be able to.
It seems to me that we need to face this and continue to challenge ourselves.
relevance
Looking for reasons not to
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